Life of typical Russian women who are lonely and single.
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Many single women are experienced in the painful state of loneliness. Many Russian women know what are depression and hopeless evening and how they are alike grey autumn days. We are born from love and we come in the world in complete loneliness. The task for each of us is to find our second part for continuation the life and to make the life happy as much as we can. Let me describe you a usual situation how it happens.
She's about 30 or even older, she is an average single Russian woman who is still not married. She has no children. She's got an unmarried boyfriend who lives and works in another town. He visits her and phones her from time to time. She loves him with all her heart and suffers from loneliness and weeps in her pillow at nights without him.
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Russian women are ready to give birth to children even if they are single.
Many years of her friendship with the man doesn't lead to a marriage and she remains single even having a friend. On her direct question what does he think of their further relations he answers that he isn't ready to be married yet and in any way he does not see himself with her. He doesn't want to marry her now because of lack of money or something else. It is very suitable for him . May be he's got another woman. May be he's got some women lovers and simply fools her. This situation is typical for many Russian women who remain single even when they are over 30.
In general it's obviously it is time to send him far away and to stop the relationships with him. But she, for some reason cannot understand herself. Periodically some thoughts come to her mind about him. The thoughts about happy life haunt her at her lonely nights. The most interesting thing is that other men appear in her life. She cannot be absolutely lonely, the men meet her and the men pay attention at her.
I would like to tell her that the place for other feelings is possibly busy with the thoughts about her boyfriend and may be it would be better to stop the relationship with that man and to free the space for new feelings.
Possibly the time comes to cut finally with him.
Generally she is cheerful and optimistic person. Why does she live in hopeless situation ? What arguments should I tell her to change something? And the most important question, how well is it to live for a single and lonely Russian woman without family and without children ?
At such age it is not easy and simple for any woman and expecially for a woman in Russia to find a man for the serious relations and to settle her life. Such a woman is more exacting and fastidious in her choice and it is very difficult to please her: one is rather old, another is poor, the third is with a bald head and pot-bellied, the fourth has got a family etc. But she mustn't stop trying to find somebody to be happy and to kill her loneliness. The years are going fast. And to hold a friend as a substitute of her happiness is a rather silly plan.
May be she will win his heart if she will get a chance to give a birth from him. But who will need this child except her? Will he be happy to know that he'll be a father? The baby isn't a doll. And what if something bad happens to her ? What will be with the child ? It is a risk for many Russian women to give birth to child being single and not married. But many Russian women are ready to run risks and to have a baby remaining single and not married.
Russian women do not want to stay alone
Russian women want to marry in time.
You can create nothing new until you destroy something old. You can speak to her for long hours but she won't be ready to make a decision. There will be only one hope - her boyfriend first stops their relationships. Although it's a little apparently suitable for him to stop such relationship because she is like a very suitable spare airfield for his flight. It's a rather sad story. The theme is almost eternal because Russian women are afraid of to stay alone.
The feel of loneliness for a woman is a rather big problem. Actually she's got two ways of decision of her problem - to stay alone for a while or to keep her relationships as before with her man. There is one more obstacle. What should she say to her parents, her friends and acquaintances? What will she answer them ?
I thought about it but could not find the answer. Sometimes our life is simply turned out into a habit and it's not easy to change the circumstances.
A darling and sweetheart person is needed very strongly. But she does not want resources from the loneliness which scare all of us a lot.
The only way out of the situation is a marriage , but not a civil marriage and not a marriage of convenience because these kinds of marriage can not make a Russian woman happy. A Russian woman needs a love-match not to feel lonely being married.
A Russian woman told me a story about herself. I was scared of horror from the thought that I will remain alone; I will come home and sit all the evening alone. I will watch TV; eat my yogurt and biscuits and go to sleep with nobody. Nobody will hug and say the words of love. This is simply nightmarish! She goes to museums, exhibitions and libraries but it does not help at all! It's good for her that she met her man in time. But all Russian women wish to get married in time not to be late in this life for anything. The career and job may wait for some time and love and marriage can not wait for long. A single but successful date can change a life of a woman greatly and bring her to her happiness. This day will come when she will say good bye to her lonely and single life and start a new one in a marriage with a nice and kind man. This men may be you, who will make one of these mysterious and single Russian women happy by saying just a couple of simple words like "I love you" or "will you marry me". Its just simple with the agency single Russian women marriage, you just need to have a great desire to do it.
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Loneliness is an illness which may be cured by love and marriage.
As far as each of us knows loneliness is an unadmitted illness. Loneliness due to the social network changes occur the chronic illness. A significant association was found by scientists between loneliness and lower levels of social support.
Being lonely, especially for a woman is often described as universal, even among married women. In fact, many married women describe themselves as lonely, either because they are not emotionally close to their partner or because they depend on their partner for most or all social contacts.
Scientists discovered that women suffer from two forms of loneliness: Social loneliness which is brought on by a lack of social network and emotional loneliness which comes as the absence of a close emotional relationship. Those superficial acquaintances that can cure social loneliness won't touch the emotional variety. Although even one close relationship can cure emotional loneliness for many lonely Russian women, those close relationships are much harder to build than a social network. If you also feel lonely you may date here a single Russian woman who will cure your illness very soon and you will feel like a young and happy guy who have finally found his ideal love-match, a marriage with a Russian dream-woman.
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